Love That Lasts My Marriage To Roger - YOU NEED TO BREATHE

    

My Marriage To Roger 

Wow!  36 years!  They do fly by, and yet, as I always say, if you look back you see such an enormous difference between then and now.  So, in that way, it does seem like a very long time. 

Love That Lasts 

It doesn't happen all by itself.  No, it's not like the rom-com or rom-dram, but sometimes it's a lot like both.  

I find that I need to remember that I love him.  Even when we disagree and even when things around us are not going our way.  

Breathe 

Yes, that's probably the biggest key right there.  You need to breathe.  Count to 10 like your grandma told you or do whatever you think is best.  Walk away briefly.  Go do something.  A nice, long, bath with candles and all of it can really help too.  

Most Of All This 

Keep the faith.  Believe in each other.  And I did say "each other" which automatically includes y-o-u!